OK, so I need to get this issue sorted out. I have a problem in setting goals. My goals are pretty vague – e.g. I want to get married, I want to get a job, I want to get a girlfriend etc. – not specific – like I want to marry this girl, I want to get this job and so on. This causes me problems I have come to realize. So what is the way to get past this?

I can start of by focusing on this job at Apple.